There is some one threatening to get me banned his name is xx-r3al-mon3y-xx
Welcome to the PlayStation Community.
These threats are generally hollow threats because they get beat in a game or something, or you killed them in a game.
What happened exactly, you need to give us some more information to go on?
If you want to report the user yourself you can, although I'm not sure what exactly for yet, the link below will help you do that.
No one that isn't on the Sony payroll has any power to get you banned, and anyone on the Sony payroll could easily get fired for saying something like that. Sony pays little attention to the detail of what a person making a complaint says. Sony is well aware that people lie. Sony won't ban anyone unless its own employees find evidence that you have violated PSN rules; by examining messages, chat logs, network logs, and other reliable records. If you have done nothing wrong, then you have nothing to worry about. Someone can tell Sony whatever they want about you. Sony won't take action based on the word of someone that it has no reason to believe.