Matter of fact, I could be a lesbian and HATE sex. You don't have to love sex to be proud of your sexual orientation, sir.
You don't, dammit .
P.S. I am heterosexual & personally I have no problem with the word 'Lesbian, however most 'Gay' people I have met prefer to be just that, 'Gay', Lesbian was a word that 'Gay' women wanted / choose / created to distinguish themselves from men, I've always wondered why.