You know what, it doesn't matter what I say, you will read it wrong. I will try to keep this short.
it really doesnt matter to me as long as people get along with eachother fine im good with that.
Being a girl myself, I am happy to see that most people in this thread think think that a gamer is a gamer, no matter what gender. I have encountered a suprising number of people in real life who have harassed me for playing video games. My own cousins are included in that mess (but they are also your typical 360 smack-talking 12 year olds...literally.)
Now, I do actually have issues with those "gamer girls" who have to smash it in your face that they are girls who play games and have to make a big spectacle of themselves. But then again, I'm not fond of the guys who do that either so...