A part of me doesn't see the reason to tell him... I mean, I am gay and proud, and I respect my right to be whatever I want to be. If I feel female, than maybe I don't have to tell him anything contrary to that? Hmmm
It's fine that you're a gay male and all, but you should still tell him since he has the idea that you're a female.
OP, at some point, And i know...at some point...there will be suspicion about your behavior if you don't tell him. You always have to realize
- He could soon start asking for pictures
- wants to hear your voice
- wants to meet in real life
It's ok to be gay, but don't lie in a relationship you want to take seriously, if that is what you are doing
Twist: Husband is actually female, jokes on you OP
But seriously, better to tell him now and get it off your chest, rather than months later when things could be a lot more complicated.