09-10-2013 06:37 PM
I guess you didn't get I was joking.
Still, that was a little cold of you to have said that to the OP.
09-10-2013 06:38 PM
A part of me doesn't see the reason to tell him... I mean, I am gay and proud, and I respect my right to be whatever I want to be. If I feel female, than maybe I don't have to tell him anything contrary to that? Hmmm
It's fine that you're a gay male and all, but you should still tell him since he has the idea that you're a female.
09-10-2013 06:47 PM
09-10-2013 06:49 PM
09-10-2013 06:55 PM
OP, at some point, And i know...at some point...there will be suspicion about your behavior if you don't tell him. You always have to realize
It's ok to be gay, but don't lie in a relationship you want to take seriously, if that is what you are doing
09-10-2013 06:57 PM
09-10-2013 07:00 PM
09-10-2013 07:17 PM - edited 09-10-2013 07:19 PM
Twist: Husband is actually female, jokes on you OP
But seriously, better to tell him now and get it off your chest, rather than months later when things could be a lot more complicated.