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Monster Hunter
MandaPanda1979
Posts: 37
Registered: ‎09-02-2011
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Can't We All Just Get Along???

Are your friends who they say are??? do you really know them? Can you trust them??? Some people will say yes...others will say they are unsure...Here is a new topic on home..Yes I have made some pretty awesome friends who have stuck by me threw thick and thin and I have known them for 3 years on the psn...Others you just meet...BEWARE! They could be pretending to be your friend, talking behind your back or just plain starting drama on home!. Home should be a place where you can go to chill, relax, and escape from reallity. Not come on home and have to worry about being bullied or drug down by others...Those of us who are adults should know better to be honest! Drop the drama on home! Who agrees with me???

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Sackboy
BoobooJones
Posts: 512
Registered: ‎04-17-2009

Re: Can't We All Just Get Along???

It's the internet. There's BOUND to be drama and there's no way to stop it.
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Monster Hunter
MandaPanda1979
Posts: 37
Registered: ‎09-02-2011

Re: Can't We All Just Get Along???

Nope by walking away and not making yourself a target you can surely stop it...It's that simple...

 

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xMINDBlIlURx
Posts: 4,688
Registered: ‎07-04-2011

Re: Can't We All Just Get Along???

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Like the real world, on here personalities will clash and since drama is more easily obtained by a tv screen or computer screen. People tend to be very careless on Home, and even on these forums.

You only have two options, join the drama or ignore it.



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Lombax Warrior
RageahoIic
Posts: 87
Registered: ‎03-27-2012

Re: Can't We All Just Get Along???

Or if it bothers people so much, maybe just stop signing on. I mean, why go on some thing if you're not having fun. LOL

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Monster Hunter
MandaPanda1979
Posts: 37
Registered: ‎09-02-2011

Re: Can't We All Just Get Along???

I choose to ignore it... :smileyvery-happy:

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Limit Breaker
Conrad_Max
Posts: 23,410
Registered: ‎02-15-2003

Re: Can't We All Just Get Along???

The thing is, it's very easy to get along. But sadly, many people choose not to. That says a lot about themselves.

 

We can decide that our Home experience will be fun and problem free. Or we can choose to make a dramatic scene.

The way you play the game is the way you live your life.


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ImM0Zb0
Posts: 1,042
Registered: ‎01-08-2012

Re: Can't We All Just Get Along???

Like so many threads, this topic has already been addressed before...Repeatedly...
http://community.us.playstation.com/t5/PlayStation-Home-General/Why-can-t-everybody-just-get-along/m...
http://community.us.playstation.com/t5/PlayStation-Home-General/Lets-Just-Get-Along/m-p/15575333/hig...

The general answer to this question is that it is not in human nature to "get along." Life is a constant struggle of dominance and survival, be it as basic as food and water, or as complex as social, political, or professional infrastructure.

My POV: Enjoy YOUR Home experience, without forcing it on those around you.
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Melpoe
Posts: 780
Registered: ‎09-18-2011

Re: Can't We All Just Get Along???

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You can't drop drama anywhere, because by doing so it will only show your own hypocrisy in time.

 

 

Like, let's say I state how I will delete people who start drama. Okay, that's fine, but what if it's drama that's caused for the right reasons? Let's say you have a friend who gets harassed for months, and they start to stick up for themselves, BUT wait! They are technically causing drama, right? Exactly. They are causing "drama" with the person who has been harassing them.

 

 

Uh-oh. Now my beloved friend is harassing the harasser. I guess I should delete them, right? Oh, I can let it slide...

 

 

Hypocrisy.

 

Bottom line: It's narrow minded and immature to let so called "drama" get to you, to the point in which you wish to avoid it at all cost. You can't escape these things. You can remove someone who upsets you, which of course will cause that magical word "drama". But, I'm talking about other forms of so called "drama". Ones that are not involved with you directly, but you take it upon yourself to get involved (which is childish).

 

And like my example above, where would you draw the line in the sand? If I were to state I will remove people who start drama, then I guess it would have to be for any purpose, even if my friend is in the right. You can't just have one or the other, the world doesn't work that way.

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TrickedOutHoro
Posts: 566
Registered: ‎02-16-2011

Re: Can't We All Just Get Along???

Lots of people here purchased Lockwood's rose colored glasses I see. :cattongue:

 

I don't see the problem ever going away. It's FAR too much to ask of a social network that can be accessed for free by any kid with an internet connection and a ps3.

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