I agree too.. But i hate that that is in fact what it has turned into. Hate it even more since i pretty much watched it happen. Cant say i didn't try to fight it.
When i signed up it was all about the games. And "meeting other people with the same interest... In games". Just been really hard to stay away from it since it turned into a facefarmersharmonyminglebook runnoff cause i was there when it was gaming related and i keep expecting it to eventually return to its roots( in vain ). Never was very good with goodbyes.
I guess all the virtual lingerie and skimpy bikinis were more important to the users than the actual game content. The devs just acted naturally , after all. And to the guys "looking for romance".. Well, they are just reacting naturally (in regards to their maturity/mentality) to the overabundance in sexual clothing items and their consumers.
Simple Cause & Effect.