I feel ya boxer_lady, I lost two friends before cuz they decided to be jerks when they joined clans, they didnt care about me that much anymore, but they weren't my friends in real life, just online. when they deleted me the reason for that is because one of there clan members started crap with me and they only stood up for that person and not me, it's a shame though and sadly they take there clan or fam so serious.
Sorry but if I don't like someone,for whatever reason,I'm going to say so and not pretend that I "love" them.I believe pretending to like someone when in fact you don't is somewhat disingenuous.When it comes to "fams" I'll agree that some of them are nothing more than slightly organized hate-groups but not all of them are that way,some are merely a collection of friends doing things(like playing games) that they consider fun.Good luck with your party,Home can never have too many.
IF the situation is as you described then your ex-friend has some pretty thin skin if he deleted you simply over not answering a message as quickly as he wished.Heck you could've been asleep at the controller for all he knew and unable to answer.I know this won't help you much now but you(being a seemingly sensitive-type person) may be better off no longer being around someone with such a short fuse.
My view is that these are people/kids that need to fit in where they cant, they need friends when they have non, a place where they feel safe in numbers, a need for drama.. It's not for me and never will be. I'm my own man and can handle my own and have a real family that has my attention.
Bottom line i really don't care about them I've never had a bad experience with them I just laugh and say "No I don't join fams" and that pretty much ends that.
once u get used 2 do something u'll keep doing it 4ever. & thats exactly what gangs do around home. they r bullies n real life so they r bullies n virtual world as well.
Come on ppl home is for every 1 why do we need all this drama with fams/mafias no we are not in grade school
Actually, the majority of the people who do these things, actually still are in grade school. Technically K to 8 is considered grade school. 13 year olds still fall into that category.
Be One With The Game.
hey boxer_lady, srry to here about your friend, heres a idea though. just make you another user thts not blocked and send him a msg to simply apologise and see if you get a response. if not then you will know what kind of friend this really was. good luck to you.