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Sep 11 2013
By: xScarIet_510x First Son 4 posts
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Cross dressing on Home for males

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I am an avid home user, and I'm concerned about my new virtual rebel husband. He is so sweet and kind, we hang out all the time. BUT, there is something he doesn't know quite yet, and I'm not sure how to tell him. I am really a guy dressing as a girl. It would break his heart. But I just can't lose him. Any suggestions?? I know he's not gay, or at least I don't think he is. He seems to ignore red flags, which has helped me actually. But regardless, I need help.
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So much I could say -- so little interest in saying any of it. But don't worry. Everyone else will say it all.

The above comment is my opinion, unless I state a fact. You can disagree with my opinion, but facts are facts.
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Sep 11, 2013

Tell him the truth, apologize and then live with what you've created.

The way you play the game is the way you live your life.

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Express true feelings towards him and admit it. It's better to be honest rather than finding out after a long time later. 


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Sep 11, 2013
Thank you everyone for the advice. But I can't lose him. He's my poppy. He'll hate me ! Ugh, I can't stand this torture Smiley Sad
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Sep 11, 2013
Probably wasn't the best idea to lead him on in the first place.
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Sep 11, 2013

Joe_Delta wrote:
I honestly hope your PS3 gets bricked. Your account gets banned, and you suffer a horrible death. Other then that be honest to the poor guy.

It is one thing to suggest someone to be honest which is obviously the right thing to do !

And another to wish someone's suffering of horrible death.

Which I think is cruel & unnecessary to say.

He's trying to do the right thing now " better late then never "    

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I technically don't have a problem seeing male gamers dressing as the opposite gender avatar, but you should've been at least honest to him about who you are as a person behind the avatar.

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Sep 11, 2013
I guess you didn't get I was joking.
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Sep 11, 2013
A part of me doesn't see the reason to tell him... I mean, I am gay and proud, and I respect my right to be whatever I want to be. If I feel female, than maybe I don't have to tell him anything contrary to that? Hmmm
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