So much I could say -- so little interest in saying any of it. But don't worry. Everyone else will say it all.
I honestly hope your PS3 gets bricked. Your account gets banned, and you suffer a horrible death. Other then that be honest to the poor guy.
It is one thing to suggest someone to be honest which is obviously the right thing to do !
And another to wish someone's suffering of horrible death.
Which I think is cruel & unnecessary to say.
He's trying to do the right thing now " better late then never "
I technically don't have a problem seeing male gamers dressing as the opposite gender avatar, but you should've been at least honest to him about who you are as a person behind the avatar.
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