how exactly do i sync the trophies ? i thought i did that when i synce psn to my FB.
Nope, just go to your Trophies in the XMB Menu, hit triangle then hit Sync, assuming you've synced them recently & don't have hundreds it should take no more than about 60 seconds.
But this won't change the Facebook notifications.
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