Would you be willing to answer a few brief questions about PlayStation Forums?
so, i can connect to my buddy and we both have good connection but, we cannot hear eachother? does it have to do with a certain type of bluetooths/headset we both need?
Connect using what software? In-game chat, PS3 voice chat room, something else?
Have you tried going to settings>system settings>accessory settings ans then going to either bluetooth device settings or audio device settings and setting it up.