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relationship advice - plz help

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I care about this girl and she said a week ago that she would tell me if she'll start a relationship with me. She says she loves me but doesn't know what to do. Last Sunday she said she would tell me on last Monday, but she never did. She still says she is thinking though! I'm pissed and upset and I don't want anything to do with her if she keeps this up. I'm thinking about telling her to make up her mind or I'm gone. She clearly doesn't truly love me if she is going to take two weeks (or more) to even give me an answer, after saying she would a week ago.

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Mar 19, 2010

 


CrystalForever wrote:

I care about this girl and she said a week ago that she would tell me if she'll start a relationship with me. She says she loves me but doesn't know what to do. Last Sunday she said she would tell me on last Monday, but she never did. She still says she is thinking though! I'm pissed and upset and I don't want anything to do with her if she keeps this up. I'm thinking about telling her to make up her mind or I'm gone. She clearly doesn't truly love me if she is going to take two weeks (or more) to even give me an answer, after saying she would a week ago.


 

Well first off you're comming off with a bad attitude. Just be happy that someone likes  you enough to think about dating you, you can't get pissed at her because she is having a hard decision.

 

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Mar 19, 2010

if you're 16 or under you don't know what love is.

no she doesnt love you and if she says no tough luck.

 

you probably have to pressure her.



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Mar 19, 2010

I'd just lay back for a few days and see what she does.  If she at least has your phone or cell number, maybe she'll call/text you.



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Mar 19, 2010

 


Desigation15 wrote:

 


CrystalForever wrote:

I care about this girl and she said a week ago that she would tell me if she'll start a relationship with me. She says she loves me but doesn't know what to do. Last Sunday she said she would tell me on last Monday, but she never did. She still says she is thinking though! I'm pissed and upset and I don't want anything to do with her if she keeps this up. I'm thinking about telling her to make up her mind or I'm gone. She clearly doesn't truly love me if she is going to take two weeks (or more) to even give me an answer, after saying she would a week ago.


 

Well first off you're comming off with a bad attitude. Just be happy that someone likes  you enough to think about dating you, you can't get pissed at her because she is having a hard decision.

 


 

Haha, this is such a great response... I wish I could give you kudos.

 








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I care about this girl and she said a week ago that she would tell me if she'll start a relationship with me. She says she loves me but doesn't know what to do. Last Sunday she said she would tell me on last Monday, but she never did. She still says she is thinking though! I'm pissed and upset and I don't want anything to do with her if she keeps this up. I'm thinking about telling her to make up her mind or I'm gone.She clearly doesn't truly love me if she is going to take two weeks (or more) to even give me an answer, after saying she would a week ago.

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This is exactly what I would do.  In fact, I have said that before.  She gave me some line about just being friends or whatever.  I pointed out the location of the front door and asked her to make use of it.  She did.  She walked right out of my life.  It didn't bother me in the least.  I guess I should have wondered if she was expecting me to reconsider and call her back or something.  I never did.  And she never called me either.  I moved on.  I assume she did too.

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StYve--At-Large wrote:

if you're 16 or under you don't know what love is.

no she doesnt love you and if she says no tough luck.

 

you probably have to pressure her.


 

Typical American abstinence-is-the-only-way-to-go response... (The first line)

 


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Mar 19, 2010

 


StYve--At-Large wrote:

if you're 16 or under you don't know what love is.

no she doesnt love you and if she says no tough luck.

 

you probably have to pressure her.


 

great response....  kids 16 and younger...pff gots a ton of learning before you understand what love is.

 

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Mar 21, 2010

going through the same my friend xD but i just recently asked her if she wanted to get back together or not, and whatever she says is the final decision!

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Mar 21, 2010

 


StYve--At-Large wrote:

if you're 16 or under you don't know what love is.

no she doesnt love you and if she says no tough luck.

 

you probably have to pressure her.


 

Oh, wow, at first I thought the last line said, "you probably have to pleasure her".

 

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