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alright here's the jist of this... guilty for straight up saying that my girlfriend is the one that brings all of the problems... after all i am her girlfriend.... so yea. that's where the problem starts... my girlfriends family hates me... and changed her cell number, want to get a restraining order (failed only b/c the two of us are 19 and she won't sign it)... i can't call her cell b/c then there'll be a confrontation @ home for her. so all i can do is webcam or drive up from san diego to newport beach to see her... which is annoying b/c she doesn't know how to drive... so i have to, and i'm putting a lot of miles on my new car... and i get that it's a car and will get a ton of miles anyways.... what should i do??? stick w/ her, even though she's going to stay in the closet?
 
(the big problem's started when i got into a fight w/ her mom... and spilled the beans about the two of us being together for almost 4 years now).


wait.. you two are girlfriends? so you're like.. lesbians? You kind of lost me there.

But if her family hates you and it's a long distance relationship, then it probably won't end up working out.

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Well. If you really like her, you should stick with her, especially if you've been together for 4 years. If you guys both like eachother, it shouldn't matter what her family thinks.
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Re: my problems.... or i mean my girlfriend brings many problems...

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Havok3101 wrote:
alright here's the jist of this... guilty for straight up saying that my girlfriend is the one that brings all of the problems... after all i am her girlfriend.... so yea. that's where the problem starts... my girlfriends family hates me... and changed her cell number, want to get a restraining order (failed only b/c the two of us are 19 and she won't sign it)... i can't call her cell b/c then there'll be a confrontation @ home for her. so all i can do is webcam or drive up from san diego to newport beach to see her... which is annoying b/c she doesn't know how to drive... so i have to, and i'm putting a lot of miles on my new car... and i get that it's a car and will get a ton of miles anyways.... what should i do??? stick w/ her, even though she's going to stay in the closet?
 
(the big problem's started when i got into a fight w/ her mom... and spilled the beans about the two of us being together for almost 4 years now).



I don't think the miles on your car should really matter to you in a situation like this..

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Well if you think it's worth it then you should go for it.
Just ask yourself if your love is worth it.






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It is obvious that her family has issues. I suggest your (girl)friend give her parents an ultimatum. Either deal with it or end up being out of her life for an indeterminate amount of time. However, if she prefers to hide the fact that you two are together and that you mean something to her, then it is best to part ways as soon as possible. No need to drag it out.
 
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So you had a fight with her mom, why?


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Is there a reason why they don't like you ?
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yea. both lesbians... sorry if i lost you.


o, that explains the hate. Do u think it's worth whot your doing to see her?
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dont give up on the relationship if you both like each other and care for one another...and dont think about what her family says...and who cares about the miles in your car...lol...best of luck
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