It's one of those questions I have been asking myself for a long time. Do i have children or not? What will I teach them, since there is no one way to raise a child... Is this world right for me to drag a child into, or is it better that I spare them ever having to live on this planet and/or society?
To be honest at times it scares me lol, that this person is a spawn of your dna in way (maybe im thinking way too much into it). And if my luck with women continues like this(lol), I'm pretty sure I will go childless. Or maybe people with my odd personality types don't reproduce at all. I will admit some of my views arent too popular and most likely wont be conventional to pass down to kids because society wont like them. Will you have kids, or are usure? And for those of you that have children, do you love their presence, or regret having them in the first place?
I'd rather go child-less.
The biggest con for me is that kids are generally high-maintenance, noisy, whiny, squirming little things. Then responsibilities bump up very quickly. Compounded by the fact that I hate the idea of having a whiny, noisy, high-maintenance squirming little thing, I don't like the idea of kids.
If you aren't sure about it then no, having a child should be thought out and wanted. Not just something that is done because it's what society tells you is the right thing to do. You have to be ready for it and want it.
If you dont mind me asking, do you have kids?