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Nervousness?

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Can someone please tell me how to avoid being nervous or how to get rid of it? In school I am always really nervous whenever I am called on or talk to a girl. Some people say its just my age but that is a load of crap. This is what normally happens.

I will be talking and then stop. And then if someone asks me something my voice will be REALLY quite for the first few words I say. It is really annoying. And It also blocks my mind from thinking about something to say. I always say the stupidest things, and then when i walk away i think of the smartest things to say. Can someone please tell me away to get rid of being nervous?


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how old are you?
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Just talkkkk!
lol i run my mouth all the time. see where that brought me? lol
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BaY_Area_Kid wrote:
how old are you?

why?




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aiman559 wrote:


BaY_Area_Kid wrote:
how old are you?

why?





it proly is? have you gone through puberty?
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BaY_Area_Kid wrote:


aiman559 wrote:


BaY_Area_Kid wrote:
how old are you?

why?





it proly is? have you gone through puberty?

It proly is what does that mean. I am 15 years old.


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The best solution to this is.. wait I have a few questions for you
 
1) Do you go out much?
2) Have contact with many different people?
3) In what environment were you raised?
4) Are your parents the same way?
 
 
The best thing to do is try to get out a lot more, and even if it seems weird try to start random conversations. Just do it even if it feels strange, the feeling will wear off and you will know what to do. Scientists say it COULD be hereditary but the environment definately has something to do with this.
 
This is not called nervousness, it's called shyness or timidity, and it should be overcome if it's intervening with your life. Just try to hang out with people more. And force yourself a bit.
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aiman559 wrote:


BaY_Area_Kid wrote:


aiman559 wrote:


BaY_Area_Kid wrote:
how old are you?

why?





it proly is? have you gone through puberty?

It proly is what does that mean. I am 15 years old.



sry...proly=probrably... but nah if you're 15 then its not the age thing
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You're like me... I can never think of anything smart to say in the middle of a conversation. It has nothing to do with being nervous; I just can't think of anything significant to talk aboutSmiley Tongue.
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aiman559 wrote:
Can someone please tell me how to avoid being nervous or how to get rid of it? In school I am always really nervous whenever I am called on or talk to a girl. Some people say its just my age but that is a load of crap. This is what normally happens.

I will be talking and then stop. And then if someone asks me something my voice will be REALLY quite for the first few words I say. It is really annoying. And It also blocks my mind from thinking about something to say. I always say the stupidest things, and then when i walk away i think of the smartest things to say. Can someone please tell me away to get rid of being nervous?



I am the same way (i'm 22). It's just one of your personality traits. I always have to think what I will say before I say it. As for nervousness, try taking some deep breaths or some other way to calm down. Try not to think about your nervousness.
 
hope it helps.
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