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There's a lot of "bleeps" in that.
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I dont mean to put any of your wifes down, but maybe your wife/girlfriend that complains about toilet seats, is an inconsiderate **bleep**? You ever think of that? Respect works both ways, the girl can do some work in the relationship too, and if that means putting down a TOILET SEAT, then so be it. smh



Unbelievable.  Before you just said that women were lazy if they complained about the seat.  Now you're actually calling women a bunch of inconsiderate **bleeps** for complaining about the seat.  And you literally don't see anything wrong with saying that?  After all, the women ought to respect you enough to shut their yaps about the toilet seat.  Because that's not considerate to you, right?

 

Am I alone in sensing something very wrong with this picture?

 

I realize the moderators here can't force you to show respect for your girlfriend or whatever outside of this forum, but there ought to be some kind of class or something where they can help you.  I understand you come from a pattern of abuse where you watched your mother go through some stuff, and I'm saddened to hear all that, but at some point you're going to have to take responsibility and break the cycle.  I've done some work before with people who come from broken homes, patterns of abuse, etc.  I am here to tell you it can be done.  You don't have to chain yourself to the past.  There are people who want to help you.

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SO he's only 17 and doesn't have a wife yet. Explain why he's alway picking fight with anyone and his level of maturity Smiley Happy
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Being 17 has nothing to do with my maturity level, as im gonna be this mature for the rest of my life. I don't age and then magically turn into a sophisticated man who wears a suit, im gonna be this way for the rest of my life, so get used to it.

Yeah, it did have a lot of bleeps and I already expected someone to bring that up.

Thats fine gadget, we have two totally different ways of thinking, we always have since we first started an argument on here, and I can see that now, so, since I don't feel like wasting my time for this thread anymore, at least, arguing, then I say good bye. Think how you want to think, take whatever I said and change it up if you wish, make me look like this complete sexist **bleep** who doesn't care for women, do what you wish, but on this thread? I'm gonna just walk away..

Your next reply will prob be something snarky since your a snarky person, but I don't mind, give my threads more post count, go ahead Smiley Wink
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Apostrophe son, did they even teach you that in school?

Oh wait, I guess it's too advance for you to use ' between the I and the ll, cuz Ill doesn't mean "I will", it's mean sick, and you're one sad sick man, I mean virgin or some un-educated jog/bully.
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Break it up kids. Smiley Indifferent 

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Apostrophe son, did they even teach you that in school?

Oh wait, I guess it's too advance for you to use ' between the I and the ll, cuz Ill doesn't mean "I will", it's mean sick, and you're one sad sick man, I mean virgin or some un-educated jog/bully.

Try to be understanding.  Don't hate the victim.  Hate the disease.

 

He's only 17 and he came from a history of abuse.  I've seen this sort of thing before.  If left alone, it will play out forever on a repeat loop.  Being a helpless child and watching your mother get abused is a powerful thing.  Usually the way this unfolds is that he's been exercising a lot and now that he's 17 he's no longer a helpless child and is strong enough to physically prevent anything like that from happening again.  But here in the real world, there's almost never a time when strength alone will set things right.  Life is complicated.

 

Nobody comes from a Leave It To Beaver or Cosby Show family.  Everyone has scars.  Some can take decades to heal.  Some never heal.  You can do nothing and remain a victim forever, or you can take command of your own life and change things.  I think he's coming to that crossroads now.  But he definitely has to face himself in the mirror without the rose-colored glasses.  If you don't do an honest self-assessment, you can never progress.

 

Ozz I don't know if you're still monitoring this thread but you're at that stage.  None of us like doing this, but it needs to be done.  Take a cold, hard look at your life and decide whether you want to keep various aspects of yourself, or take a different path.  Self-assessment can be painful, but it's very very necessary.  I hope I have accellerated this effort for you.  This is the path to growth.  Finding the problem is half the battle.

 

And here's the thing.  It never ends.  You must CONSTANTLY check your direction in life and make sure you're on the right path.

1. Realize where you are today (self-assessment).

2. Determine where you want to be.

3. Plan a route from where you are to the place you want to be.

4. Walk the path you charted, making course corrections where necessary.

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NikeMurphDawg wrote:
Sounds like you're a male chauvinist.

He clearly wants to see women abused.  No girl likes to sit on a toilet with the seat up.  Today it's leaving the seat up, tomorrow he's treating women like they do in Middle Eastern countries.  It's in all caps too.  He likes to shout at women.

 

These are not "our" rules.  He doesn't speak for me.  Real men don't need to shout rules abouthow many shoes is too many.  That's your opinion.  How do you know what the woman is thinking?  You can't possibly know.  Sounds like if you had your way they would be barefoot.

 

Rules should be listed in order of priority.  Making everything a number 1 priority just leads to failure, and in his case I'm assuming sexual frustration.  Might have something to do with him being "in shape" (round).  <-- See item #1 on his list - it's near the end.

 

Women have rights.  And stop shouting at them.  They have brains you know.  And how dare you impose your "Men's rules" on women?  We're not going to let you send the women back to the river to beat the clothes against a rock.  We're more evolved than that.  This is America.  Get used to it.

 

You go beat your clothes against a rock by the river.  See how you like it.


it's why people like us have a wife/GF and people like that live in their mothers basement watching porn living in a fake world until they hit retiring age...LMAO

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it's why people like us have a wife/GF and people like that live in their mothers basement watching porn living in a fake world until they hit retiring age...LMAO


It's men like you who are under their wives thumb. Smiley Happy

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kythunder wrote:

it's why people like us have a wife/GF and people like that live in their mothers basement watching porn living in a fake world until they hit retiring age...LMAO


It's men like you who are under their wives thumb. Smiley Happy


no it's not like that either..we actually RESPECT each other..thats a word not in most peoples vocabulary anymore...

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