Also, what if the person is transgendered ? And whether they are male or female IRL, they can be "themself" here on Home.
Exactly. I go online as female, but I have not fully transitioned and may not for awhile for various reasons.
That's why I freaked out when all these boys/men hit on my avatar when I first got here a few months back. I don't want to mislead or catfish anyone, and at the same time I have to be true to myself. I clearly put it in my profile on the forums and on Twitter, but you know how things go with that. *eye roll*
That's why when I tell people "I'm only here to have fun" I mean it. I don't want to be anyone's girlfriend, dime piece, conquest or whatever on here. I just want to be me.
Someone asked why not use a dating site.
Why not take up drinking and lose your inhibitions?
Seriously, the best thing to do is to go into Home and interact with other users. Don't go in looking for that "special someone". Go in looking to play games and to become a part of the community. And just as in real life, something may develope. Play games that allow you to chat while playing: Pool, Bowling, Poker, Blackjack and a few more. Start off with small talk and see how things go.
One step at a time.
We have not because we ask not, how will other like minded people know if I don't put it out there. I'm definitley not the only person who wants more out of home. This is for those people so they''ll see it and go "I'm into that."
@The_Question101 , maybe you can help me find a girlfriend. I'm shy, very interverted, and have a very difficult time striking up conversations with women. I'm rather intimidated by them..and I wish I knew how to make them laugh. I hear that is key to winning them over. What's your thoughts? Can you help me?? I see you found yourself a keeper, I too want to bask in the glory and effervescence of having a companion. Our resident ladies man @ObduleMuammar was to take me under his wing and show me his smooth, lady charmer ways..but alas... my tutorship never came to fruition
It was like me trying to prove Half Life 3's existence by finding three bananas in my fruit bowl.