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Do you believe in 2nd chances at life?

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Do you believe in given people 2nd chances at life?

I could understand that rule doesn't apply when cheating in relationships but at other stuff. Even if you did love that person but found out they cheated, would you for give and forget ? How would you handle on given that person a 2nd chance?

My last real job I had, I could give people 2nd chances but treated them respect, etc.

Its hard to break people for those who don't give 2nd chances. They were once hurt or just don't because they don't wanna feel like they were taken advantage of.

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Depends on the offense. I can forgive, but I will not enable.

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bob-maul wrote:
Depends on the offense. I can forgive, but I will not enable.

I'm with Bob on this, depends on the offense, most people probably deserve more second chances than they get, but some people definitely do not. 

 

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Yes im livin proof. 8]
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Mar 8, 2014

We must forgive others, if we are to be forgiven.

 

We can forgive others, without giving them second chances.

 

We can give second chances, without forgiveness. 

 

Most people don't change.

 

Most people cannot change, without help.

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People are not perfect. If people were perfect, second chances wouldn't be necessary as people would have made the right choice earlier. Second chances are beneficial as they help one learn from their mistakes and act upon their amends in order to become a better individual.

 

But like what @bob-maul  and @BRIT-KO  said, it also depends on the offense. Getting someone pregnant or arrested for doing a crime may leave effects that would last a life time and may alter one's life, making it difficult to learn from your mistakes and move on.

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bob-maul wrote:
Depends on the offense. I can forgive, but I will not enable.

This is the best answer I've ever heard.  Perfect answer.

 

I'm also of a mind to forgive but not necessarily trust again.  If you stab me once and I forgive you, I'd be a fool to let you stand behind me again with a knife.  You're never coming in the house again.  This is purely an example.  Nobody stabbed me.

 

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Yes, I do. I will forgive someone, but things won't immediately go back to normal - change will/has to happen
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I may be able to forgive them but if someone cheated on me i'd certainly not go back to that person, ever. In terms of relationships i mean, depending on the person i might even still be friends with them.

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Mar 8, 2014

yes because i got one


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