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@Solid--Steak I have tried. Twas' a washout.

Here's how it went:
Friend introduces her to me in attempt to cure me(Wednesday before TG).

Her: Oh hi Tai, it's nice to finally meet you.

Me: ... ...(clears throat and...) heh--uh

Her: um, are you alright

Me: (nods in agreement) (looks down) ( mind BLANK)... ( walks away)

Fail.
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Re: Cannot Talk To Girls

Dec 1, 2013

KawaiiChiu wrote:
@Solid--Steak I have tried. Twas' a washout.

Here's how it went:
Friend introduces her to me in attempt to cure me(Wednesday before TG).

Her: Oh hi Tai, it's nice to finally meet you.

Me: ... ...(clears throat and...) heh--uh

Her: um, are you alright

Me: (nods in agreement) (looks down) ( mind BLANK)... ( walks away)

Fail.

You walked away? Just like that? Smiley Indifferent

 

You're never going to get anywhere by walking away from the challenge.

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Re: Cannot Talk To Girls

Dec 1, 2013

KawaiiChiu wrote:
@Solid--Steak I have tried. Twas' a washout.

Here's how it went:
Friend introduces her to me in attempt to cure me(Wednesday before TG).

Her: Oh hi Tai, it's nice to finally meet you.

Me: ... ...(clears throat and...) heh--uh

Her: um, are you alright

Me: (nods in agreement) (looks down) ( mind BLANK)... ( walks away)

Fail.

Your nervious around girls that 's your problem. I would expect a girl to look down as girls are shy and guys generally aren't. For me personally I am shy but have been able to talk to girls even though I have Cerbal Palsy which makes my speech kinda slurred so people don't understand me at times as I don't talk clear enough or loud enough for them to hear me.

 

You should have asked her what's she's doing for Thaksgiving Break or just explain to her that you get nervious around the opposite sex. I remember doing the exact same thing and would just get people to not want to talk to me and  make fun of me behind my back growing up.

 

I had a friend who was a girl that i had known for years but we never were close like friends. She started telling me, "Hi, Arturo" whenever she saw me at church as we used to go to the same church together. I would tell her "Hi, Gilda" and what made me notice was she was always smiling when she saw me which is something girls never did when around me. It went back and forth for a few years. I saw her at my college a few years ago and she said "Hi, Arturo what's up". I talked to her for a few minutes and it actually felt good to actually talk to her then just saying Hi and going our seperate ways. I was nervous but decided to go ahead with it anyway, I smied at her which is something I never would do around girls. She saw her ride coming and said she enjoyed talking to me, and said "Bye, Arturo". I actually felt like a weight had been lifted from my shoulders. The next day at church I was outside after service and she came up to me and tapped me on the shoulder, giggling. Turned around and she had gotten ahold of my hand and was swinging it back and forth playfully. I never had a girl grab my hand before and it felt good and made me take notice. She had a huge smile on her face that looked like it could bright up a room. The sad part is I never asked her out after all this time. 

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Re: Cannot Talk To Girls

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KawaiiChiu wrote:
@Solid--Steak I have tried. Twas' a washout.

Here's how it went:
Friend introduces her to me in attempt to cure me(Wednesday before TG).

Her: Oh hi Tai, it's nice to finally meet you.

Me: ... ...(clears throat and...) heh--uh

Her: um, are you alright

Me: (nods in agreement) (looks down) ( mind BLANK)... ( walks away)

Fail.

If you're looking down anyway, try asking about her shoes.  Anything.  What brand are they?  Something like that.

 

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KawaiiChiu wrote:
@Solid--Steak I have tried. Twas' a washout.

Here's how it went:
Friend introduces her to me in attempt to cure me(Wednesday before TG).

Her: Oh hi Tai, it's nice to finally meet you.

Me: ... ...(clears throat and...) heh--uh

Her: um, are you alright

Me: (nods in agreement) (looks down) ( mind BLANK)... ( walks away)

Fail.

If you're looking down anyway, try asking about her shoes.  Anything.  What brand are they?  Something like that.

 


But try to not sound to enthusiastic with them. There is a fine line between a hook and a gay comment.

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