I just want to be able to talk to a girl in general. Make a lady friend, instead of my best friend they smells like ocean breeze everyday.
Okay, listen up chumley because this is the best advice anyone is going to give you. You want to be able to talk to a girl? Here's the thing; don't get too far ahead of yourself. If you start to get all dreamy eyed and picturing you and her on some beach somewhere, you've already blown it. Push those thoughts right out of you mind, and just talk. The less you think about her that way, the more relaxed you'll be, and the more interested in you she'll be. I know it sounds crazy, but trust me, it works. And ask HER questions, and let her talk. She's probably had guys tell her all about themselves, but what she'll want is to tell someone about herself. The more she talks, the more chance of finding common ground. "Oh yeah, I love hockey! I haven't been to a game in ages".
Just relax, let her talk, and don't get too far ahead of yourself.
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Stop thinking of girls as if we are some weird alien species that need appeasing. We are just humans with faults and most, the ones worth while, will not judge you if you make an idiot of yourself once and awhile. You are putting too much pressure on yourself for absolutely nothing.
Stop thinking of girls as if we are some weird alien species that need appeasing.
Nah she is right, if you think you have to plan every move you make with yoevery girl you know, you'll never feel comfortable with them and probably never feel yourself.
If you like a girl you need to make her feel special without making such a big deal out of it. Easy right?
"Aye shawty! Can I interest you in a candle lit dinner at the Waffle House?"
If you removed the "aye shawty" part, I'd totally say yes to the candle lit dinner at Waffle House. That sounds awesome.