So PS Plus was able to download the patch that I couldn't download myself. PS3 kept restarting when I tried to do it manually but PS Plus auto update downloaded the update.
Now the problem is the stupid game won't start up. The oragami symbol is flashing in the corner but never goes away. What in the hell is wrong with this **bleep** game, this is ridiculous. I've never dealt with a game that was this buggy, Quantic Dream should be ashamed of themselves